My mom has been falling a lot recently. Every time she has an accident, I tell her we need to start touring local assisted living communities. She says she knows, but she’s afraid. I am more afraid for her safety.
What fears keep seniors from moving to assisted living? I’m trying to better understand what might be holding her back.
Brenda from Saline, MI
Fears That Keep Seniors from Moving to Assisted Living
Moving to an assisted living community is a major transition, so it’s understandable that your mom is afraid. Even when seniors think their quality of life would improve at a community, a variety of factors can prevent them from taking the next step.
Many times, an older adult’s hesitations center around fear. With a little understanding, family caregivers can reduce their loved one’s concerns and start touring assisted living communities.
4 Reasons Why Seniors Are Hesitant to Move
- Loss of privacy and independence
One of the most common reasons seniors fear assisted living is that they associate it with loss of privacy and independence. They assume they will be monitored and kept from doing many activities they love.
In reality, assisted living tends to have the opposite effect. Assisted living communities understand how important independence is for seniors. They often take extra steps to ensure residents feel in control of their lives. At the community, residents are free from many of the responsibilities they had living on their own. When chores like cooking and cleaning are taken care of, seniors have more time for leisure activities.
- Feeling forced to participate in activities
Another reason your loved one may be resistant to assisted living is thinking they will be forced to participate in every community activity. This is simply untrue.
Many communities offer a variety of activities tailored to different interests. Seniors can choose to participate only in the activities that interest them or avoid them altogether.
- Being forgotten
Many seniors worry that their loved ones will forget about them if they move to a community. The thought of loneliness can be frightening.
Moving to an assisted living community doesn’t mean you will lose touch with your friends and family. Most communities encourage friends and family members to visit. Also, assisted living can prevent isolation by surrounding seniors with people their age.
- Costs associated with moving
Price is another reason seniors may shy away from assisted living. In some cases, the cost of assisted living is less than other long-term care solutions.
There are a variety of resources available that may help with some expenses. Long-term care insurance, employee benefits programs, VA benefits, and Medicaid are resources worth exploring.
Understanding Fears about Assisted Living
Deciding to move to an assisted living community can be unnerving. It’s important to listen to your loved one and try to understand their hesitations. This will allow you to better help them get past their fears.
I hope this alleviates some of the fears your mom has about moving to assisted living.
Heritage Helps Reduce Fears about Senior Living
Heritage Senior Communities, including our Linden Square Assisted Living Center, provides support to seniors and their families considering assisted living. Our team members can help reduce many of the fears associated with moving. Contact us today to learn more!